When Will I Get Better?
I had a recent conversation about healing from trauma and disappointment. My friend asked how long it usually takes to get better. This post is all about the healing process of “getting better.” Can we ever get better?
Author: Nina
I love intimate conversation and learning about people. I've always been aware that friends and strangers alike often tell me very personal stories and secrets, some of which are heartbreaking anecdotes about loss, defeat, failure, and setback.
I live and breathe Gestalt Life Coaching and focus on the present moment. My practice is both in-person and done remotely. Visit my website coachingbyninarubin.com.
Tom Petty Felt Like My Friend
Tom Petty, the great American legend and musician, has been incredibly influential in my life. It’s felt like he’s been my friend. Please read my short tribute to him.
When Honesty Pays
How often do you see women speak politely but hold themselves back from honesty? Do you think honesty is usually the best policy? How do you handle occurrences when something has been stuffed down inside?
Seven Reasons to Hire A Coach
You’ve known for a long time that you want to make some changes. Yet, you haven’t acted on these changes. Maybe you’ve been scared, uncomfortable, uncertain. Here are seven reasons why you should hire a Coach.
100 Happy Days
My journey in the #100HappyDays Project has been interesting. Take a read to understand why this concept of becoming comfortable with being an active user on social media and posting more about myself has been big growth for me.
What Does “I Love You” Really Mean?
What does “I Love You” Really Mean? How do you say it and how do you interpret when it’s said to you?
Turning Toward Each Other
How do you know when your partner wants to get close? How do you know when you feel distant? What are the “bids” (requests) you make for intimacy? This essay is about the process of “getting” what your partner is trying to tell you — so you can become closer and turn toward each other.
The Other Side of Suicide
I asked him if he was suicidal. He paused and answered yes. This post is about what it’s like to talk to someone who’s suicidal — and to pay attention from the perspective of someone who feels hopeless.
A Most Special Person, My Grandma
Here’s a tribute and letter to my younger self reminding me that it’s going to be okay when my Grandma dies.
Listening With Your Heart
What does it mean to listen with your heart? How can you improve your listening skills?
