Matchmakers and Blind Dates
Why do I fall for blind dates? Have you ever had a blind date? Here’s a new post about my recent experience on a blind date.
Category: dating
Lazy Dating
I’ve been noticing a lot of laziness in the dating world, both from men and women. Everyone says they’re looking for find someone, but when it’s time to push our limits, we often retreat or rely on the easy way. What do you think?
Still Ghosting In The Shadows
Why do people still ghost? Many people thought it was a phenomena that would stop, but it’s a communication pattern that still exists and creates doubt and anger. What do you do when you’re ghosted?
Guest Post: Love On The Rocks
I LOVE this post by guest blogger, Brita. She’s an incredible writer and offers amazing insight to the world of dating while working at a bar. Note to men: don’t do this anymore.
(Communication With) Men
How are men and women communicating in 2017? My clients and I have experienced a certain passivity and vagueness coming from men. Read more here!
Delusions: “You Don’t Know My Boyfriend.”
“You don’t know my boyfriend.”
“He’d never do that.”
The doubt in your stomach is a tell. But you ignore it. Nobody could be so insensitive, especially your significant other, whom you’ve known forever. He assured you you were the ONE. Then how are these delusions even possible?
Peacocking
The peacocking, mansplaining man…We all know him from his flashy outfits and attention-seeking behavior.
How Doubt Ruined My Relationship
I would nearly breakup with him because things were just smooth enough to be acceptable, but not good enough to be great.
Scoring in the Friend Zone
“There are only the pursued, the pursuing, the busy, and the tired.” -F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Great Gatsby It all started around three years ago when I was at a sporting event with good friends. I didn’t have VIP seats to watch the game, but one person passed me his ticket so I could watch with the […]
The Trouble With Ghosting
The real trouble with ghosting is that it usually makes the recipient doubt and question him or herself. We want to be liked and considered, so when we’re ghosted, we wonder what we did wrong.
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