The Erasure of Time
Some musings on time when it seems to stop.
Tag: Coaching
A Blessing For Joy Today
Here is a recent poem I wrote for this anxiety-producing week.
“A Blessing for Joy Today” By Nina Rubin.
When the Unusual Becomes Ordinary
There are benefits to the ordinariness of life during Covid. We have more time and space to explore ourselves and the things we’ve taken for granted.
Stop Lying To Me
He tried to protect me by omitting some crucial information. Really, he just re-opened a wound. Stop lying.
When Will I Get Better?
I had a recent conversation about healing from trauma and disappointment. My friend asked how long it usually takes to get better. This post is all about the healing process of “getting better.” Can we ever get better?
Seven Reasons to Hire A Coach
You’ve known for a long time that you want to make some changes. Yet, you haven’t acted on these changes. Maybe you’ve been scared, uncomfortable, uncertain. Here are seven reasons why you should hire a Coach.
Turning Toward Each Other
How do you know when your partner wants to get close? How do you know when you feel distant? What are the “bids” (requests) you make for intimacy? This essay is about the process of “getting” what your partner is trying to tell you — so you can become closer and turn toward each other.
Lazy Dating
I’ve been noticing a lot of laziness in the dating world, both from men and women. Everyone says they’re looking for find someone, but when it’s time to push our limits, we often retreat or rely on the easy way. What do you think?
Me Too.
The “me too” club. This is a club I wish had zero members. Why are women posting on Facebook the words “me too”?
You Need A Coach
Coaching is appropriate for people who feel like they can’t get ahead. They can’t get over the hurdles between where they are now and where they want to be.
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