Ruts and Routines
Six months of Covid life and we’re fatigued. How do you get out of the rut of your routine? Here are some tips.
Tag: dating
Seeing the Best in Someone
When we look for someone’s merits, we might actually get what we’re looking for!
Stop Lying To Me
He tried to protect me by omitting some crucial information. Really, he just re-opened a wound. Stop lying.
Matchmakers and Blind Dates
Why do I fall for blind dates? Have you ever had a blind date? Here’s a new post about my recent experience on a blind date.
When Honesty Pays
How often do you see women speak politely but hold themselves back from honesty? Do you think honesty is usually the best policy? How do you handle occurrences when something has been stuffed down inside?
What Does “I Love You” Really Mean?
What does “I Love You” Really Mean? How do you say it and how do you interpret when it’s said to you?
Turning Toward Each Other
How do you know when your partner wants to get close? How do you know when you feel distant? What are the “bids” (requests) you make for intimacy? This essay is about the process of “getting” what your partner is trying to tell you — so you can become closer and turn toward each other.
Lazy Dating
I’ve been noticing a lot of laziness in the dating world, both from men and women. Everyone says they’re looking for find someone, but when it’s time to push our limits, we often retreat or rely on the easy way. What do you think?
How to Love Me
How do you know how to love a person? As we grow and experience more, we refine our needs and realize what works for us. Love is dynamic. Here’s a short list of ways I like to be loved. How about you?
Still Ghosting In The Shadows
Why do people still ghost? Many people thought it was a phenomena that would stop, but it’s a communication pattern that still exists and creates doubt and anger. What do you do when you’re ghosted?
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