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comebacks, defeat, and missed attempts in relationships and other life quandaries

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Stop Lying To Me

ImageDecember 19, 2018October 30, 2020 Nina1 Comment

He tried to protect me by omitting some crucial information. Really, he just re-opened a wound. Stop lying.

When Honesty Pays

ImageSeptember 24, 2018November 20, 2018 NinaLeave a comment

How often do you see women speak politely but hold themselves back from honesty? Do you think honesty is usually the best policy? How do you handle occurrences when something has been stuffed down inside?

100 Happy Days

ImageAugust 17, 2018September 27, 2018 Nina8 Comments

My journey in the #100HappyDays Project has been interesting. Take a read to understand why this concept of becoming comfortable with being an active user on social media and posting more about myself has been big growth for me.

Listening With Your Heart

ImageMarch 27, 2018November 5, 2018 Nina1 Comment

What does it mean to listen with your heart? How can you improve your listening skills?

Lazy Dating

ImageFebruary 1, 2018February 2, 2018 Nina11 Comments

I’ve been noticing a lot of laziness in the dating world, both from men and women. Everyone says they’re looking for find someone, but when it’s time to push our limits, we often retreat or rely on the easy way. What do you think?

How to Love Me

ImageJanuary 19, 2018January 22, 2018 Nina5 Comments

How do you know how to love a person? As we grow and experience more, we refine our needs and realize what works for us. Love is dynamic. Here’s a short list of ways I like to be loved. How about you?

Making The Same Mistake (Again)

ImageDecember 1, 2017October 3, 2020 Nina6 Comments

We’ve all done it before. Not only haven’t we learned from our mistakes, we’ve made the same ones again!! Are we purposely trying to self-sabotage our development? Why don’t we stop ourselves?

Deep Down, You Already Know The Truth

ImageAugust 17, 2017 Nina8 Comments

The truth always resides inside us. We opt to ignore it, to distract ourselves from listening to our hearts and heads. What happens if we slow down and find our truth?

Guest Post: Love On The Rocks

ImageAugust 9, 2017August 9, 2017 Nina5 Comments

I LOVE this post by guest blogger, Brita. She’s an incredible writer and offers amazing insight to the world of dating while working at a bar. Note to men: don’t do this anymore.

You Need A Coach

ImageJune 26, 2017June 26, 2017 Nina10 Comments

Coaching is appropriate for people who feel like they can’t get ahead. They can’t get over the hurdles between where they are now and where they want to be.

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I cheated. Yip I did it, I am not proud of it, but that won't change a thing. This is my story of me trying to survive one day at a time. No guarantees....

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