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How to Love Me

ImageJanuary 19, 2018January 22, 2018 Nina5 Comments

How do you know how to love a person? As we grow and experience more, we refine our needs and realize what works for us. Love is dynamic. Here’s a short list of ways I like to be loved. How about you?

(Communication With) Men

ImageJuly 19, 2017July 19, 2017 Nina3 Comments

How are men and women communicating in 2017? My clients and I have experienced a certain passivity and vagueness coming from men. Read more here!

Putting Myself Out There

ImageMarch 8, 2017March 8, 2017 Nina12 Comments

I’ve struggled with the concept of putting myself out there. It’s time to announce my new women’s program and business partner! Read for more details.

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Recap: Women’s March – What an AMAZING day!

GalleryJanuary 22, 2017January 23, 2017 Nina4 Comments

The Women’s March in Los Angeles was one of the best days I’ve had in a long time. Short post on my experiences.

Guest Post: Do They Honestly Know Not What They Do?

ImageJanuary 16, 2017January 16, 2017 NinaLeave a comment

A guest blogger offers her clear and thorough perspective on the topic of victim blaming.

I Never Thought It Was THAT BAD

ImageDecember 12, 2016September 28, 2018 Nina4 Comments

I’ve been working on this personal piece for months, debating whether to come out with my story or keep silent. With all that is happening in our world, I’ve decided I need to speak up and share my own story, so maybe, hopefully others won’t feel the need to silence themselves. Please take a read.

Changing The Things I Cannot Accept

ImageNovember 16, 2016November 16, 2016 Nina5 Comments

Lots of people have been feeling disoriented with the new President-elect. Here’s post about how to change the things you cannot accept anymore. Take action and hold empathy dear to your heart.

When It Stops Being Good For You

ImageAugust 26, 2016 Nina1 Comment

Why do we fall for aloof or flaky people? How do we know (or finally decide) it’s the end? What makes us stop?

Is It Good For You?

ImageAugust 24, 2016August 24, 2016 Nina4 Comments

Some things are good for us now but not in the long or medium term future, while other things might feel uncomfortable now but are good for us in the long term.

Peacocking

ImageApril 19, 2016April 19, 2016 Nina2 Comments

The peacocking, mansplaining man…We all know him from his flashy outfits and attention-seeking behavior.

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Girl Rebuilt

My personal diaries on failing at love miserably & the lessons on love addiction that rebuilt me. Please click Follow.

Surviving the affair....the cheaters perspective

I cheated. Yip I did it, I am not proud of it, but that won't change a thing. This is my story of me trying to survive one day at a time. No guarantees....

One Mile at a Time

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