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Seven Reasons to Hire A Coach

ImageSeptember 6, 2018September 27, 2018 Nina6 Comments

You’ve known for a long time that you want to make some changes. Yet, you haven’t acted on these changes. Maybe you’ve been scared, uncomfortable, uncertain. Here are seven reasons why you should hire a Coach.

Making The Same Mistake (Again)

ImageDecember 1, 2017October 3, 2020 Nina6 Comments

We’ve all done it before. Not only haven’t we learned from our mistakes, we’ve made the same ones again!! Are we purposely trying to self-sabotage our development? Why don’t we stop ourselves?

You Need A Coach

ImageJune 26, 2017June 26, 2017 Nina10 Comments

Coaching is appropriate for people who feel like they can’t get ahead. They can’t get over the hurdles between where they are now and where they want to be.

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Recap: Women’s March – What an AMAZING day!

GalleryJanuary 22, 2017January 23, 2017 Nina4 Comments

The Women’s March in Los Angeles was one of the best days I’ve had in a long time. Short post on my experiences.

He’s Really Doing His Best

ImageJanuary 3, 2017January 11, 2019 Nina4 Comments

I’ve seen it often: someone hitting his head against the wall in frustration. He can’t get ahead. He’s stifled in his romantic relationship. He has a bad living situation. He’s broke and not making enough money at work. He comes to see me. Now what?

It’s Been Surreal

ImageDecember 19, 2016December 19, 2016 Nina1 Comment

Surreal is the word of 2016. Here’s a blog about this past year. I’m curious about your intentions for 2017.

Changing The Things I Cannot Accept

ImageNovember 16, 2016November 16, 2016 Nina5 Comments

Lots of people have been feeling disoriented with the new President-elect. Here’s post about how to change the things you cannot accept anymore. Take action and hold empathy dear to your heart.

What Happened? I Live in a Bubble

ImageNovember 9, 2016November 9, 2016 Nina2 Comments

The election made me see that there are so many underrepresented members of the population. I do not want to go back to the “good ol’ days” of the 1950s with racial and gender inequality.

Notes from a Recovering Perfectionist

ImageAugust 2, 2016November 24, 2020 Nina4 Comments

“Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order.”

It Takes A Year

ImageJune 28, 2016June 28, 2016 Nina3 Comments

People habitually reflect on their lives and set resolutions during the New Year. This blog post is all about a year, or four seasons. Do things really change? What stays the same?

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