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comebacks, defeat, and missed attempts in relationships and other life quandaries

Category: Choice

I Choose Me

ImageNovember 1, 2018October 31, 2018 Nina2 Comments

Who chooses how to make decisions in your life? Do you want someone else to choose for you? Are you comfortable with your own abilities in making decisions? Read more here!

Seven Reasons to Hire A Coach

ImageSeptember 6, 2018September 27, 2018 Nina6 Comments

You’ve known for a long time that you want to make some changes. Yet, you haven’t acted on these changes. Maybe you’ve been scared, uncomfortable, uncertain. Here are seven reasons why you should hire a Coach.

100 Happy Days

ImageAugust 17, 2018September 27, 2018 Nina8 Comments

My journey in the #100HappyDays Project has been interesting. Take a read to understand why this concept of becoming comfortable with being an active user on social media and posting more about myself has been big growth for me.

You Need A Coach

ImageJune 26, 2017June 26, 2017 Nina10 Comments

Coaching is appropriate for people who feel like they can’t get ahead. They can’t get over the hurdles between where they are now and where they want to be.

Loud Yoga

ImageMay 18, 2017May 18, 2017 Nina6 Comments

Do you mind when your yoga instructor blasts music? When does music interfere with your practice?

Other People’s Problems

ImageMarch 30, 2017March 29, 2017 Nina5 Comments

Would you rather keep your problems or inherit someone else’s? Where would you start?

Gaining Independence

ImageApril 11, 2016April 11, 2016 Nina1 Comment

Growing up is all about becoming independent. Here’s how my clients and I navigate the individuation process.

The 5 Misconceptions of Low Expectations

ImageApril 6, 2016June 15, 2017 Nina9 Comments

You expect people to be worse than they are. It’s so common to believe that humanity is doomed and you’re going to get screwed over at every turn. You hold onto secrets and money with a tight fist, worrying that nobody will be honest. Then you drop your phone at a parade in New Orleans and […]

Why the name “Afterdefeat?”

ImageApril 1, 2016 Nina4 Comments

I began this blog after I felt defeated, when I was making my own comeback.

FOMO, JOMO & Choice

ImageMarch 10, 2016June 22, 2017 Nina12 Comments

I’m faced with the topics of FOMO and JOMO as I decide what to post on social media and what to keep private.

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Girl Rebuilt

My personal diaries on failing at love miserably & the lessons on love addiction that rebuilt me. Please click Follow.

Surviving the affair....the cheaters perspective

I cheated. Yip I did it, I am not proud of it, but that won't change a thing. This is my story of me trying to survive one day at a time. No guarantees....

One Mile at a Time

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A year of reading the world

196 countries, countless stories...

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I'm not "just a girl"

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