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comebacks, defeat, and missed attempts in relationships and other life quandaries

Category: loss

Tom Petty Felt Like My Friend

ImageOctober 1, 2018October 2, 2018 Nina3 Comments

Tom Petty, the great American legend and musician, has been incredibly influential in my life. It’s felt like he’s been my friend. Please read my short tribute to him.

The Other Side of Suicide

ImageJune 14, 2018June 14, 2018 Nina2 Comments

I asked him if he was suicidal. He paused and answered yes. This post is about what it’s like to talk to someone who’s suicidal — and to pay attention from the perspective of someone who feels hopeless.

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I’m Tired of Death

GalleryJuly 6, 2017July 7, 2017 Nina13 Comments

After learning about the death of one of my teachers and my cat going missing, I realized I’m over death and loss. However, it’s not ending anytime soon, so how can I come to peace with this?

Dinner With Schwartzie

ImageFebruary 15, 2017March 13, 2017 Nina6 Comments

I recently learned of the death of my Rabbi. He was someone who taught me so much about life and mostly about myself.

Self-Selecting In and Out

ImageJuly 7, 2016March 11, 2018 Nina5 Comments

One of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face in life is choosing whether to walk away or try harder. Not all relationships are meant to last forever.

In Memory of My Kitty, Olive

ImageMay 18, 2016May 18, 2016 Nina11 Comments

Here is a tribute to my beloved kitty, Olive. I imagine any cat, dog, horse, bird or any other animal lover can relate to the loss and grief associated with losing a furry member of the family.

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Girl Rebuilt

My personal diaries on failing at love miserably & the lessons on love addiction that rebuilt me. Please click Follow.

Surviving the affair....the cheaters perspective

I cheated. Yip I did it, I am not proud of it, but that won't change a thing. This is my story of me trying to survive one day at a time. No guarantees....

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